I don't particularly want to know the details of readers' or listeners' masturbatory habits but I figure if I've written or read something shippy, whether it's explicit sex or not, *someone's* going to be getting off to it somewhere. As long as they don't come into my journal to tell me about it, I don't really care. And I definitely would be put off by someone saying that *I* was arousing them, as opposed to the fanwork I created, since that is awfully close to creepy stalker territory for me.